So I (25F) have been casually seeing this guy (28M) for the past three months and we have a "friends with benefits" arrangement.

We see eachother a few times a week and I genuinely enjoy his company and the sex is amazing. Except one thing.

In these three months that we've been sleeping together, he hasn't made the effort to make me climax. Not even once.

My libido is sky high and I love having sex. I'm very much a giver and I absolutely love oral sex so he's been very thrilled with that.

I'm also embarrassingly submissive and I don't necessarily "need" an orgasm in order for me to enjoy it but it doesn't mean that I would mind it at least once in a while. It honestly kinda started bothering me a little bit recently.

He's always compliments my "skills" and he tells me how much he likes having sex with me.

I'm not sure how to bring this up with him and I'm embarrassed to ask him to reciprocate.

How would you approach this conversation?


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