I’m located in a smaller area that I’m mostly opposite in ideology from (childless by choice, not religious, liberal). I extended my search options to include a bigger city two hours north of me. I’d love to move there someday but that won’t be for awhile due to debt and low paying job. I’m realizing it wouldn’t be easy to go up there for a date. I wouldn’t mind doing so, but I’d like to get to know someone over a few weeks before I do that. I also realize people may not want to invest into something they only see on the internet and calls. That’s fair. I could give up, but I don’t want to anymore. I’ve been single for over a decade and want to explore that possibility again. But worry my standards are too high for this arrangement.
I’m curious if anyone has been in this or a similar situation. Thank you.