Help 30f and 42m end relationship?

I’m 30(F) and my boyfriend is 42(M). We’ve been together for almost three years at the point. We were together for about 3 months before he moved in with me due to us being long distance. I currently live with my mother, and when he moved in it was never meant to be long term. Now fast forward I’ve asked him to move out back in November (2023) and March (2024) and he continues to tell me he doesn’t have the money and has nowhere to go. I’ve told him I wanted to break up and he some how turns the whole conversation around to where we’re going to work things out. I truly do not want to be with him anymore and I would like him out of my house. My biggest issue is I feel guilty when he says he has nowhere to go. I don’t wish bad on him at all but we’re to the point that I feel no connection to him anymore, I feel annoyed more than happy when we spend time together. I feel like any time I try to end it he “doesn’t allow it”. I’m not sure what to do, do I just break down and be mean? I don’t like the idea of that but I don’t know what to do anymore. Any advice is helpful, thank you.