I am not a friendly, outgoing person. I keep to myself, try to give off “don’t talk to me” vibes, keep my ear buds in, usually on my phone.
I swear, EVERY time I go somewhere to read or do work on my computer, I have people coming up to talk to me. Random strangers.
Just today I went to the park and had to move where I was sitting TWICE because someone came up to me and wouldn’t leave me alone. One was a guy who I think may have been some type of PUA, second was an older guy wanting to know about the book I was reading
Same types of things happen at coffee shops, at the grocery store, often people coming up to me and just shooting the shit about whatever's on their mind.
There must be something i'm doing that makes me seem approachable, this doesn't happen to other people I know.
Not sure if this is the right place to post this, just need advice. People who never get approached, what’s your secret lol
Edit: just for clarification, I am not attractive lol. I’m average on a good day