It’s a weird question so let me add context. I have minor erectile dysfunction, so I don’t have issues if the girl is on top, but I have potential issues when I’m the one on top. Basically I got dealt a REALLY bad hand when it comes to sex, but the good news is most girls I get with has some preference to be on top.
The thing is that even if I finish first, I keep fingering/eating her out until she finishes too. And to make up for my sexual issues I’ll listen to a girl and eat out/finger a girl exactly how she wants me to in order for her to finish. I get with girls that are very open and honest about what they like so I know that eventually I can make a girl finish, even if it’s not my dick.
Does this make sex less enjoyable for the girl? Am I doing good by making her finish in other ways, or is it strongly preferred that I make a girl orgasm with my dick?