Why aren’t you successful at meeting people in real life?

It's a funny thing; we think technology will make everything easier, faster, and more efficient, but sometimes it just ends up creating more friction and frustration. In my case, I started using dating apps thinking they would be more time-efficient and useful. I ended up wasting more time and feeling lonelier and more confused. The good news is that I realized meeting people in real life is not really time-consuming, and it comes down to a combination of having the right mindset, making it happen naturally, and building a routine around it. Everything else is an excuse. What's yours?