To those who have a partner who can do things independently of them, I commend you.
Understanding there's different relationships and the dynamics can change. Taking account of mental/physical/emotional health along with life stressors i.e. family, kids, work etc, etc. Totally get it.
But to feel and truly know that at the end of the day you have true partnership, that's loving, in sync, unwavering, and bonded, that's just freaking awesome. Life itself can bring about so many challenges til it will literally have one thinking and talking crazy sh*t to themselves.
Having a partnership to where accountability is a standard, the other can think/see other angles and come up with solutions to issues that may arise that you can't see, now that imho makes for one helluva team!