My boyfriend says really mean things to me in arguments and they really hurt.
Examples include:
-I wish I was still wjtb my ex
-youre a c**t
-I don't care about your mental health
-live in the real world
-it's nothing to do with you
-I don't trust you
-I don't want you listening in to me and my ex on the phone
-it's over
-maybe you shouldn't come with me to see my family this weekend
-my parents don't even like you that much
-my family have only met you like 3 times (they've met me plenty after he introduced me to them on our 2nd date and that was his choice)
I'm at a loss for why he says these things and how to make him stop. How can I make him realise how much this hurts me? And how do I find out if he meant any of it?