I know I will be getting a lot of hate comments. But I really hope for some support based on how it happened.
At first we met at a party and just hooked up couple times. He told me he lives by himself so i thought he was single. After a few dates he told me he loves me but confessed that he had a wife and child overseas but they are in a process of divorce. Fast forward to a year later he told me he actually has a second child who’s super young so they need more time for the divorce but he convinced me that he’s fully separated from his wife without any physical contact. He also told me he already told his wife that he’s met someone else so it seemed legit to me to be dating a separated person. However as time went on I slowly begin to doubt this whole thing….it seemed like in many cases he was still trying very hard to hide our relationship…so I reached out to his wife anonymously and she told me she has no idea that hes with someone else. Then I told her the truth and she thanked me and left him. I confessed to him that it was me who told his wife and he told me I ruined his life that he was gonna get a divorce if I just didn’t do anything….He’s even aggressive towards me contacting his ex wife and told me I’m crazy and I ruined everything for him. Now I’m feeling extremely painful and scared. Did I do the right thing? Also when I met him I was only 23 so I was definitely immature and didn’t know how to handle things well. He was 34. I’m very traumatized by this whole thing what should I do?