Hi everyone,

Went on a date last wednesday. The date went well, she said she wanted to see me again and I thought everything was great.

She told me she wanted to go to a karaoke place whilst we were on the date, and I found a good one for her (This was Friday, I think.) and instead of asking if she wanted to go on a specific date, I thought it would be good to leave it open for her. I asked when she was next free and her reply was 'I want to focus on job hunting, maybe next month?' Which in all fairness, she did just move to the city and told me when we met that she was looking for work.

So, I left it for a while, let the weekend go by and on Sunday night I messaged her 'Hey, how's your weekend been?' and she only saw the message 20 hours ago and hasn't replied. To be fair, we have never really been back and forth repliers, I kind of wanted to keep it low key and chill as I did not want to be overbearing.

I'm just getting mixed signals because she still watches my story posts on IG. Should I follow up and check if she's okay or should I just leave it? If I did send her a check up, should I ask if she still wanted to see me? I'm just not good with taking signals.

Thanks for your help, hope you're all having a lovely week so far!


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