So next month i will go to the army for 11months and my gf will go back to her country to apply for her goverment job(shes currently a foreign in my country). We’ve had our ups and downs in the realationship but we seem happy together but few things til this day concern me.
I dont have nothing to hide on my phone and when i first noticed she likes to go trough it from time to time, i just simply put her face id on it for easier access. Even though i trust her i thought she would do the same with her phone but she didnt.
Recently she went on a vacation with her friend and she got a fine for buying the wrong ticket(petty stuff but she didnt know anything). When she came back she asked me to help fix the problem so she doesnt have to pay the huge unreasonable fine. My phone was in other side of the room so i asked to use hers, the link that was provided on the fine didnt work but there were 2 other links i didnt get to try because she took her phone away saying – maybe that link will work on my ipad. While she was saying it i noticed by her fingers that she exited some apps before closing the phone and continuing on the ipad . At that moment it hit me.
Td;LR I tried not to overthink but knowing the fact we will have long distance soon really bothers me. We will not see each other for a year or maybe more and i really want to make sure before we are separated. Should i ask to go trough her phone or are there any other solutions to this?