So i’ve been on a few dates with this guy and have had a really good time so far! Honestly he has been nothing but nice. He is a few years older than me (i’m 22 he’s 27) but, I didn’t really mind because I thought he was “mature”. On our first date he told me where he went to college and funny enough both my parents went to the same college and he was in even in the same frat as my dad. So as dads do he messaged all his buddies seeing if anyone knew who he was.. comes to find out my dad received several messages from friends and other people still apart of the frat that this guy was kicked out of the frat for “terrorizing females” so my dad asked more obvi and several people advised that they would not let this guy date their daughter. I’m really unsettled from this whole situation because I fully believed he was a good guy and really liked him, but haven’t even been able to text him back after I found out.. what do I do?
edit: Come to find out he broke into his ex’s and her friends dorms and vandalized all of there dorms, leading him to be kicked out and moving..