For context I believe this is me (boring). I go to parties with my friends. Some are reserved like myself. However the reserved ones are able to get strangers they meet engaged with them aka they rarely initiate conversations.
Whereas I have to initiate a conversation. I do ask questions about the other person(s) involved but it seems like pulling teeth whereas my fellow reserved friends seem to seamlessly be able to keep a good flow going with others
Again both my friends and myself are introverted but one (my friends) are treated differently than the other (me)
I get this sixth sense (vibe) that my friends are the cool introverts and I am this weirdo if that makes sense.
Again what makes a person seem boring right from initial meeting and what can I do to improve