So I was on Facebook and my boyfriends mom popped up in people you may know so I clicked her profile and started looking at her pictures and noticed some pictures from a few years ago of my boyfriend’s son and a little girl, and there were comments mentioning granddaughter and things like that. So I called my boyfriend and asked if he had a daughter he said yes it was a one night stand when he was 22/23 years old and he didn’t want to keep the baby and she did. He did say he was involved for a little bit, but that the mother was crazy and that is part of the reason why is relationship of 9 years with his son’s mom didn’t work out because the mother gave her a hell of a time.
We’ve been about 9 months and I recently moved in with him. He has a 9 year old son that he gets 50 percent of the time and is fully involved with. He told me that he considers his son his only child and has no involvement with his daughter and doesn’t pay child support or anything. I asked him if he wanted more kids and he said yes. I just don’t know what to do. I’m on vacation too which I guess is a good thing because it gives me some time to think.