(F) ok so I’ve never dated anyone yet in my life. i’m still at university and I feel like everyone around me is dating someone like all of my friends. I just keep asking myself like why not me or if I’m doing anything wrong. I don’t think it’s because i’m not attractive because i do attract guys but not serious ones. Honestly, i’m just done with being single I literally don’t know what it feels like to love someone. At times I feel hopeless. I would appreciate if you can give me tips like do I need to be more social so I can actually meet like minded people like how do you meet the right person?
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Do you have an ideal partner, or a type ig? I as a 20 year old male know that it is much easier to flirt with a girl if she expresses interest first. Now I don’t mean approaching them, but throwing them the eyes works 👀
As for prolonging relationships, you have to want to be in it and show that. Now that makes you vulnerable because you might scare them away which doesn’t sound like your problem but from my experience girls can be extremely overbearing at times. If you don’t really know what you’re looking for your will feel and act disinterested which kills relationships. So my final advice would be to have an open mind about what people have to offer because you can learn from everyone so there is real reason to be invested. And when I say ideal that is very personal to you. Some girls idealize hunky, some comforting, some like girls yo. What do you want?
Is that a bad thing to be single? You don’t want to try and enjoy it?