But she always has her attention completely occupied by a screen. I feel like I can't start a conversation or initiate the love making.
We do have sex quite a bit, but last night she told me it's too much and she doesn't have time to get horny. Not enough time in between us having sex for her horniness to build up.
I've done some research and figured out the difference "making love" and having sex.
I've had a conversation a couple times with her before talking about how the screens are getting in the way of things. She kinda dismisses it and doesn't change anything. Always a TV on that she's watching or a phone in her face. The only time she puts those things down is when she talks about her past trauma. I'm ok listening to her talk about that stuff, I like she can talk to me about it. That's just the only time when it's just us talking.
If I ever want to do anything with her I have to request that we turn off all the devices. She never initiated this stuff. She is saying she wants to "make love" but she won't make the effort.
I'm a guy so I feel like i'm being too sensitive about things but it makes me feel worthless and unwanted.
She tells me i'm attractive a lot and hot, that I have a nice dick and it's pretty big. So I believe that she is attracted to me.
Im just trying to figure out the problem and what I can do. If anyone has any advice or can help me see from an outsiders perspective that would be nice, thank you.