40m (married to 38f) Suggestions?
I've been married to my wife since 2014. We have become like roommates but still have love for the other, and sex. We just had our third child. However, before she got pregnant I was involved emotionally with another woman since 2022. I am in love with this other woman but feel if I leave my married life I will lose my boys. I know, I shouldn't just stay for the kids but it's more to the story than meets the eye. I don't like the fact I'm emotionally cheating but I feel the girl I've been talking to since 2022 is my soul mate.