Hi I am F/24 and my ex bf is M/24.
My bf hurt me a lot in the past and i stayed together with him. During the relationship I had a lot of resentment towards him creating an unhealthy cycle. He said he would change his ways when he hurt me in the past and he did in fact change. Over time he started resenting me because I no longer had the same feelings and became cruel. He still holded on to hope that I would be able to move on with him in the future. Over time I finally let go of the past but now he couldn’t let go his resentment towards me and it was obvious with his behavior towards me. I kept holding on to hope that he would change towards me in a positive way. however I couldn’t be on the side of the resentment as long as he was. I was hurt again by him but because of his actions with his resentment and instead of holding resentment back towards him I just decided to end the relationship. When I told him I wanted to end the relationship he told me it was my fault that I stopped loving him. Is this true that it’s my fault. If so can you give your perspective?
‘ 24F’ & ‘24M’
TL;DR
Bf hurt me so I had resentment vice versa. So I stopped loving him and he says it’s my fault