I’ll be giving him blowjobs and handjobs and he stays hard enough to come, he fingers me and eats me out and everything is fine, I come too. Every time I slide on the condom he goes soft. I tried doing something sexy once and used my teeth and tongue to pull the condom down his shaft and it worked once and we were able to have sex but it hasn’t worked since. We have to use condoms bc I’m not on birth control.
A side note, my bf is very insecure and has horrible self esteem. I took his virginity and he says he’s worried I’m comparing my past sexual encounters to his performance, I’ve reassured him multiple times but he won’t listen. It’s all in his head honestly. He stopped seeing his therapist because of his insurance but I think he needs a therapist to deal with his insecurities. I knew he was insecure like this and it didn’t bother me, I used to be in my head a lot in my early twenties but lots of therapy and meds changed that.
Any solutions until he can get his insurance sorted? Plus therapy isn’t a cure, it takes months to see results. Will Viagra help? I know you can get Viagra online. Should we try unprotected sex and the pull out method?
tl;dr: bf is very insecure about his sexual performance bc I took his virginity and I have more experience. He can’t stay hard for sex only for foreplay. Will Viagra help? Will not using a condom help?