I really like this guy that I’ve been seeing for some time, we slept together for the first time last night. First I went down on him and after a good amount of time he pulled me up and said it’s hurting a bit? I was immediately surprised because I don’t think I use teeth or that im bad at BJs so I asked him what happened what did I do wrong and he just kind of laughed and changed the topic / started doing other things.
After this, we had sex probably 4 times that night. 2 times I think he got close to finishing but didn’t. To be fair, once when I think he was close I had to ask to change positions because at this point it went on for so long I was sore and also not that wet anymore.
I don’t know what went wrong? Should I try and have a conversation about this or should I just let it go? Im an over-communicator when it comes to sex so I’d love to ask what I can do to make it more enjoyable for him but I also don’t want him to get uncomfortable or conscious. Everyone I’ve slept with in the past usually finishes pretty quick, maybe after 1-2 mins of a BJ or 5-7mins of sex. So going at this for basically like 3 hours was exhausting honestly lol.
Any tips?