this is the only way i can explain this.
i’m (28f) seeing this guy (29m) and he just does the cringiest stuff, like we’ve only been on four dates and he’s already like farting and stuff infront of me. the sex is shitty… he keeps going soft – blames medications etc and i just can’t with it. i cannot get aroused with him.
besides all that he’s great. has a great job, cooks and cleans for me, would do anything for me. kind, genuine , we both want the same things.
i can’t help but think i’m the problem here. maybe i’m so used to being treated like shit from men i cringe at the niceties… i really would hate to let him down…. is me cringing at him really a big problem in the long run? it feels we are already married for like 10 years and i feel like i already resent him LOL pls help with advice. thank you…