For some context, I am [18M] and my partner (we’ll call her M for the sake of anonymity) is [18F], I was raised pretty “old fashioned” (my friends call bad social skills but whatever) so I am not really the best at picking up “hints” or “signs” from girls now. I had thought she was the same way up until recently too. I met M last year in my High School history class but didnt really get to know her until this year in my english class where we ended up doing a group presentation with her and ended up getting her number there, that next week I take her to prom after her original plans had some complications, and from what I had picked up she had a great time there. The next day I asked her out to dinner and she had said yes, so we went and things went really well and we did some other things on top of just dinner, which she also had seemed to enjoy. The only weird thing about that night was when I had asked her about if she would be interested in doing this again she responded with “text me it” and then when i dropped her off at her house she kept stressing the fact that she “had a good time” (not sure if thats girl code or whatnot). I ended up postponing plans off a week since that next week was our graduation week and was jam packed. Fast forward to that next monday where I ask her about going out again she just responds with “I don’t think I’ll be able to make it” and when I ask about another day she says “Not anytime soon we are super busy rn” (she works a pretty time consuming job so it made sense) I then tell her that that’s ok and to lmk if she would have a free day sometime, and then also send a text saying that I had a vacation coming up (about a month) and asking if after then if she wanted to do it, but i’ve gotten no response for the past week. Im not sure if its me being an overthinker or maybe shes just really busy like she says but like i said i am not sure, all my friends have told me not to follow up and to either wait a few weeks or wait for her to text me back but something tells me that I should follow up with her or even just try to atrike up a conversation at the very least? Imo i think that maybe she just didnt read it bc of how busy she has been or just hasnt had a free day, idk either way I just wanted a second opinion from all of you guys here since I am horrible at picking these things up to see if she is still interested in me and if I should follow up or just wait it out
TL;DR Having issues wt female partner that I thought was interested in me suddenly ghosted me out of nowhere am i cooked?