Online dating

So I recently tried online dating for the first time and I met a guy who seems really nice and genuine we have been talking most days for about six weeks and he recently asked about meeting however he lives an hour and a half away in a different city and he is adamant he wants me to go to him first and gave me his address im very anxious and concerned over safety and he has no understanding of this at all also I have never seen a picture of this guy has he never sent me one he said he has adhd and feels insure which I didn't judge as I have autism myself although he has seen a picture of me I also have been in previous dv relationships which I also have explained to him and I have panic disorder and high anxiety as a result but he seems to not understand at all he also wants to know where I am and who I'm with all the time which seems over the top when it's been six weeks he is also very sexual and talks non stop about sex and has started asking for pictures which i feel uncomfortable sending and if i dont do something he asks he becomes moody and demands an apology i just dont know what to make of this guy and we have not even met just want someone else's input on this because I've told nobody I feel like my feelings are not valid to him