The anticipation was built up for months of us fooling around (never any sex yet.) Recently we were pretty drunk and decided now was the time- we finally tried having sex and he came faster than he could pull out, it was barely even fully inside of me before he came. He rolled off of me so quick and said he already came (in me at that) and i was so confused because it was maybe only 5 strokes and wasn't even fully inside of me yet. He just sat there awkwardly after and said he needed more time in between the next round….so about 20/30 mins later we had sex again and same thing- came in seconds, faster than he could pull and it was over so fast before i could even START to enjoy it. This is the first time that i've had sex in a long time so I was pretty tight…I saw him the next day and he was acting super awkward and almost trying to avoid me. I don't think I did anything wrong…or is he just embarrassed by his performance??? I thought when guys drink it's harder for them to cum which is why i'm also just so confused on this situation
I'm not sure why some people are so offended by this post? Here's some more context- We are not together. He loves talking about girls he's been with (which made me believe he'd be more of a pleaser). Has always talked up his game just for this to happen. I asked him to please me in other ways/for us to try other things and he didn't. Zero foreplay other than kissing/playing with my clit again for only a few seconds. I wouldn't be confused by him acting differently after if he showed that he cared to make it up to me in other ways WHICH HE DIDN'T in the moment. Not understanding why people are coming for me for being bothered but feeling bad for him ?