I am overachiever in my group circle but rarely boasted about my achievement because I'm afraid to attract jealousy. Last time when I shared my achievement, they liked to dumbed it down to "oh of course, you can do this because you are smart while I'm not" and I dislike that because it felt like disregarding the hours I put every day to study for it. This continue on for my career and my business too. So whenever I have achievement, I normally write it alone in my journal, shared it with my family or shared to relevant subreddit, but I feel sad for not being able to share it with my friends for fear it'll attract jealousy and make them feel bad about their life/current progress. Would like to ask for advice on how to deal with this kind of situation, thank you 🙏
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