You have a friend who can’t figure out why they’re single but you KNOW why. What’s the reason?

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1. Because they complain 24 hours a day about everything.

2. I have a friend who says this all the time but never does anything about it, so there are no dating apps and won’t go put when invited. We work in a pretty much all female environment, and they are straight. They seem to think a man will land on their door or what I think is really the issue is they don’t actually want a relationship right now they just miss elements of it which is OK.

3. Lack of self-reflection, dominates every conversation but doesn’t have much interesting to say, extreme attachment issues, Musk fanboy, questionable hygiene to say the least, manipulative, poor communicator, cheap, doesn’t believe in therapy, doesn’t respect boundaries

   “Friend” is a strong word, it’s my ex that still hangs around in the same friend group. He’s almost 30 and hasn’t had any other relationships and doesn’t understand why.

4. He looks like my left big toe and goes after very attractive women and then calls them superficial. Not a friend, just an acquaintance.

5. Don’t look after themselves – as in shower regularly, brush hair and teeth, launder clothes, wear deodorant. Doesn’t have a job.

6. Her insecurities and low self esteem scare her partners off, unfortunately. She spends sooo much time wondering if people really want to be with her or they do it out of pity… it can be draining. It’s a real shame, because she’s a lovely person and it’s truly great to have her around.

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8. They go for people who want to fuck not date and then gets confused why they aren’t texting back. Girl you had sex with them…they got what they wanted. If you want to buy a shirt you don’t go looking at an ice cream shop they don’t sell them. I’ve told her get off the apps and get into a nixed sport and you’ll find a guy.

9. Because they stay away from toxic people. And somehow, everyone they meet is toxic.

10. Because she dates total losers