So much sexual energy no sex

I’m 21(F) I’ve always been a very sexual person even if im celibate at the time. I just love sex in general I like to read about it I like to learn new things about it and try new things all the time and I’m younger so I’m not really running out of new things to try. I usually could take care of most of the heavy energy when I hadn’t had sex before but those times are over and now it almost feels like I need it. I’m single and have been out of my first relationship for almost a year now. It was pretty mentally abusive and I was convinced to have sex most the time it wasn’t out of my very own will. It more so something to make her happy. I avoided sex for a long time and still do because I’ve had no sexual experiences where my boundaries were fully heard and I’m also very scared of STDs. But it’s something I think about 24/7 like it’s something I want so desperately like I’ll work for it like a big job or something lol. I have interest in men but have never been with a man fully and I have been with women before so I know I definitely like that. Basically I’m looking for advice on how I can meet people who have similar interest as I do and respect around those interest as I do. I’ve heard about sex clubs but you’ve always got to travel decently far for them and pay memberships. I also do not have any close friends and I think traveling far to participate in a sex club with strangers it might be nice to see a familiar face. Are there any other locations similar to what I’m asking for or apps with people with the same interest or website. I’ve thought about making an onlyfans but I know how easy it is for your things to be leaked and how it stays attached to your government name. Basically I want someone to experiment different kinds of sex with and I don’t like to share. Looking for any helpful advice. Thanks.