I took a break from dating for about 2 years to work on myself. Back story I was the girl who would get into very toxic/abusive relationships for ignoring red flags. So after therapy & some 12 step meetings I decided to give it another go BUT to be more aware this time. A guy and I had a date planned and when I checked in he was SILENT for 3 days then on the day of the plans said he was no longer free & tried to continue to conversation like nothing happened.
My friends think this is a red flag and how he made no effort to remake plans or apologize for lack of communication. I removed myself from the situation entirely because poor communication is a turn off for me. Also to be frank, I have no space for the mind games/jumping through hoops tryna to figure out if someone’s into me or not.
So I just wanted to ask the peanut gallery is this a red flag for you or is it too premature to tell?