I (21m) am in love with my best friend (20f). We have been super close for about 5 years now, first met in high school and we were in a relationship for a little bit, but we mutually decided that our relationship was stronger as friends. We didn’t want to risk falling out and losing each other completely.
Since that time we have remained being very close friends, and for a long time I didn’t have any desire to pursue anything further than a friendship. This could be due to the fact that she moved across the country, and even though we were in contact almost every day, I only saw her in person about once a year.
Now about three years after she moved across the country, she has moved back, and we have spent almost every day together. I’m starting to feel like i’m in love with her again and I don’t know if I should tell her how I feel, or just wait and see if this a wave that will pass.
Any advice would be very appreciated. I can give more details if needed.