Suddenly extremely attracted to my husband – is the reason okay?

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1. He did something you reeeeeeally like, and you reeeeeeally crave it again and again and again and again.

   As far as I am concerned, these two things are very closely related.

2. I don’t know your husband. But if a woman tells me “You’re giving me the best tongue-fucking of my life and it makes me hornier for you than I thought was humanly possible,” I’m gonna be less “Offended” and more “Eager to get this horny bitch behind a closed door as soon as possible.” So let’s just say I’m optimistic about him responding favorably.

   Reciprocate and make sure he’s having a good time too, stay hydrated, and have fun. This is the opposite of a problem. 😀

3. You’re over thinking. Enjoy this phase of life while it lasts!

4. Ugh so wholesome. I wish this was my wife writing this. You’re blessed!

5. You’re definitely over thinking.

   This is like thinking a restaurant will be offended if you leave a good review because they provided good service.

   Your husband is providing good service and you’re enjoying it. He won’t be offended cuz you like it.

6. I think that’s perfectly okay. I was already super attracted to my boyfriend, but once we got comfortable with each other and really having fun….. oh my!! Nobody has ever gotten me as wet or given me as many or as intense orgasms as he does…. and it seems as time goes on I’ve become addicted to him and spend a good chunk of my day thinking about all the fun we’re gonna have….. so i think it’s normal, I feel sex increases attachment.

7. Give him good surprising head too.enjoy and don’t over think it.

8. >Suddenly extremely attracted to my husband – is the reason okay?

   Lol, yes, absolutely. If I were your husband, I would be proud of myself. Let him know!

9. Not at all. If anything it would be an ego boost for him. I thought you were gonna say “I’ve never cheated and I never will cheat but this guy at work has been complimenting me and I feel sexier at home because of it” or something of the like.

10. I’ve been in your same boat lately! I’m mad obsessed with my husband! He gave me a yoni massage and made me squirt for the first time in Oct. It unlocked a lot of sexual desires in me. I can’t get enough of him. I have a crazy amount of orgasms everyday now. I’ve been insatiable 🥵
    I’m super happy for you! I hope it lasts forever!

11. Doubt he will care. Enjoy it and reciprocate.

12. What’s he doing?? I’m trying to get better!

13. All I gotta say is as a woman I’m jealous AF lol

14. This is just basic brain reward circuit behaviour, you are more attracted to the guy that makes you cum hardest it’s just really normal. People gravitate to things that make them feel good. You want that hit and he is your provider. Nothing abnormal here AND he is your husband what could be better. He probably loves it as well.

15. I don’t know why you think it’s messed up. I assume your partner who loves you and put extra effort into giving you great orgasms wouldn’t mind you telling them.

16. My wife wasn’t a big fan of receiving oral when I met her in our twenties. She liked it, orgasmed sometimes, but it wasn’t on the top of her list. In her mid thirties she started getting more into it and later on became obsessed to the point of demanding it almost daily. I don’t do anything differently than I did 13 years ago to make it that much better for her. She also gives me three times more oral and handjobs than she did in the past and says that she has more of a desire to pleasure me than she did before

17. Hell Naw, guys dont think like that. If you share this, he will want to make you come more times.

18. I don’t care why my wife is attracted to me. Just tell me why so I can keep doing it

19. My wife just taught me how to stimulate the underside of her clit… she that it is very intense and can’t too much of it!

20. Omg, 100% okay it’s a huge compliment to him! Please enjoy it for the rest of the women who aren’t getting any. Lol

21. I think he’d be pretty thrilled to hear you want him even more now…it’s flattering and you love him. I had a similar experience…I squirted when I was about 29 years old and sex was never the same. I’m almost 10 years married and I still get wet when I think of him or what we did last night! Enjoy this.

22. If anything, hes going to absolutely LOVE it. I’m the type of person that loves getting the other person off, and that helps me. So I mean, if he’s going for gold on you, he’s doing that bc hes wanting that out come.

    He will be absolutely thrilled! Have fun!

23. Hol up lemme get a pen.

    Was there anything he did differently during this session, even small things.

    What did you eat that day? Which cardinal direction were you facing? We’re there any passive buffs cast before the combat encounter?

24. So you’re asking if it’s OK to feel more attracted to someone who makes you feel sexier than you did before?

    This is the epitome of overthinking.

25. Ugh you’re living my dream!! My bf only goes down on me like once every 2-3 months😭

26. Everyone on here squirting and I’ve never made a woman squirt it’s pissing me off 😂. Sounds awesome get him to tell me his secrets. I always get my wife off but never encountered squirting

27. I _want_ my wife to be more attracted to me because of things I’m doing sexually. Like, that’s exactly the kind of validation I crave.

28. Congratulations, babes. Don’t ruin it for yourself by overthinking. Enjoy it and embrace it.

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30. I’m sure he loves it so I wouldn’t worry

31. Its gonna turn him on!! Tell him!!

32. So, EXACTLY what happened to my husband and I. Married 16 years, went to Florida for a weekend getaway and whew…first time ever squirting and I can’t get enough of him, sex, anything and everything now. It’s like we unlocked the best sex of our lives in our 40s and I’m here for ittttttttt 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

33. This is awesome. I’m so glad you get to experience this without someone who loves you 🙂 I don’t think it’s a problem and made the spark you guys already have even bigger

34. Idk. Does a man capable of giving you orgasm seem more attractive? Yes.

35. Overthinking. This is optimal.

36. Pretty sure your husband doesn’t feel offended. As long as you are taking care of him, who cares? Enjoy it.

37. This post is a perfect illustration of why intimacy is important in a relationship.

38. Your marriage sounds fun!

    Is there something that he’s going wild for like this too? (Which could even be the same thing, if he’s going wild for it “in and of itself” and not just because he wants you to be happy.)

    Keep trying to find it, but don’t stop doing what you’re doing. Maybe get him to confess some fantasies to you he was afraid to reveal before…

39. There is nothing as hot as getting my wife to say “St St St stop!” Then she can’t move and wants me to bring her strawberries and wine. She follows me around like a puppy for a few hours afterwards.

40. I think everything sounds perfect.

41. Absolutely a great reason! I’ve always enjoyed doing a thigh dive & even more so with my wife. The first time she squirted during an oral marathon, I was ecstatic! She was shocked but overwhelmed! I’ve been able to recreate that wonderful event a few times, but I spend a couple nights a week working on it. We’ve yet to figure out exactly what it is that brings her to that point but by damm we keep trying & taking notes!

42. Can I just say I WISH I had your problem lol. Definitely over thinking it. Enjoy.

43. I think at most, take a couple’s sex quiz to see if there are things you can do for him in return. Otherwise, you’re living the life and both really enjoying it.

44. If he doesn’t respond well, it’s definitely him, not you.

45. You’re overthinking it.

    Your husband will love that you’re more into him, that you crave him more.

    Have fun!

46. You’re definitely overthinking this, imo. After 18 years together, my husband and I are exploring a lot of things we haven’t before and having some sort of sex daily. This crosses over to our relationship, for sure. It has definitely increased my desire for him and attraction to him. It has also completely decreased any and all negative feelings towards him. I can’t remember the last time I complained about anything. Lol. He hasn’t thought anything about it, as far as being offended.

47. I have noticed the same, the more a man is (willing to) satisfying me in bed, the more Im obsessed with him 😄