We’ve had 2 dates so far. The last date I was a nervous wreck, but I was trying to hide it. We kissed a bit here and there, and talked a lot.
I have erectile dysfunction, and I have a lot of anxiety around intimacy.
I really do think my anxiety is the reason why I’ve had many girls dump me after a few dates.
Should I just tell her? Like “Hey I was wondering if you would be interested in a 2nd date? It’s okay if you’re not. I do sometimes get pretty nervous on dates which I know is offputting.”
Or something?
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Just being curious, do you watch a lot of porn?
I personally would recommend being straightforward because it shows honesty, courage etc. but if you would find a way to get of the anxiety it would obv be better.. i think you know that, girls enjoy more if a guy can be confident in the bed
No don’t do that sounds very self destructive, you should start looking at ways to improve it on Reddit and/or YouTube
No. Get your shit together and choose to stop being weird.