I met a girl through a mutual friend who I decided to ask out one day because she seemed super flirty with me, said she was talking to someone else, gave her a “no worries I’ll see you around” and went about my life as normal 3 months.
We still run into each other now through our mutual friend but wasn’t nearly giving her half the attention I used to or flirting with her anymore, and now she’s keeps wanting to get to know me better, tries Snapchatting me on occasion and says we don’t hang out enough (I see her in the same frequency now as I did before asking her out).
I think it’s pretty funny doing your own thing and focusing on yourself actually ends up working out in the long run.