So this is my dilemma
So I am (m)26 years old and live with my parents and siblings in an apartment in New York. I’m getting my life together, I have my associates degree and now working on my bachelors. I work, getting paid minimum wage. my girlfriend broke up with me a year ago over an argument we had and we just couldn’t agree on certain stuff. she was an amazing person and it was truly some of the best year of my life. When we first started dating we meet up in hotel for bunch of times until she got her own dorm room in the city so we didn’t have problem of me taking her to my place where I live with my parents and siblings. I’m an average looking guy but I’m in shape,I dress nice and make sure I groom myself and smell very good. I have gotten a bunch of compliments from girls at school and on the train about how I smell.I have gotten compliments from my supervisor saying I’m always looking sharp all the time. Ever since we broke up it has been hard for me to try to date again because I feel like what’s the point since I don’t really have my own place at my age and live with my parents and siblings. Whenever I go to a club with my friends I get a lot of opportunities to take a girl home but I can’t. There’s always that voice at the back of my head reminding me that I don’t have a place to take the girl even if I want to. This has been very hard on me these days.
I know my situation is not great but my question is am I depriving myself of some good opportunities out there, should I even try or just give up like I am doing right now.
3 comments
I agree it’s *ideal* to have your own place. But my guy, it’s not that big of a deal. I live with my mom and SO. Housing is insanely expensive it’s pretty fuckin common. Idk why it’s that big of a deal to the point you’re not even considering dating… just find someone who’s okay with it? Date for a year or two casually and then maybe get a place together.
Are you just trying to have a sexual relationship? Why tf would you get hotels just to hang out together. Go bowling, see a movie, get dinner, invite her to family dinner, family movie night, etc. believe it or not some women are very family orientated.
You can always try dating, just communicate with your matches that they may not be able to come over often because of privacy.
No.