I have been using apps to make more friends, i have absolutely no interest in anything but wholesome friendships to have more people to go to music shows with, walks, dinner, simple low key things.
I am also trying to seek more female friends as i keep getting hurt by my male friends who i feel treat me secondary and havent respected boundaries. However, its been really hard. Especially connecting with women my age or older it seems they are way less available and friend groups already defined. Similar to my existing gfs, they have relationships and work or arent into anything i want to do, as i am not ready to settle down and spend night and day with a significant other person. I still want to travel and go out. I feel i was more shy and low key when they were doing these things hard core and even then it seemed they were more interested in meeting guys than the experience. I really truly just want experiences outside my apartment, is it wrong for me to respond to or match with 19-25 year old women if I am almost 28?