TL:DR, 21m sexually frustrated with gf 24f
21(m) sexually frustrated with gf 24(f)
TL;DR;- so her and I have been going out for about three months now and I have come across an issue for myself. I always go down on her as I like to pleasure her, and she likes being dominated alot too. I consistently try and make her orgasm and I'd say most of the time she does before the sex starts, and even if she doesn't I can make her squirt alot which is apparently a sensation like an orgasm? (According to her).
I often get hard but it's not for long maybe 2 mins tops without consistent stimulation, and I feel like whenever we have sex it's always about her pleasure first. I like her, but even after expressing my need to not be the dominant one, and to also want to cum seems lost in translation. I honestly feel like she ignores my desires during sex.
Nothing wrong with her being the only one getting off or getting more pleasure than I do. I just feel frustrated that I don't really get to cum from sex because of how flustered and frustrated I am that she gets off first and I always have to initiate.
Any tips to solve this one?