We have been together for more than a year now. I do love him when he is normal. But nowadays, I feel like we fights a lot. During each fight I feel like I am belittled. He tells me I am dumb. Maybe I am dumb and selfish… I don't know. My bf always swears at me when we fight. It has reduced a bit. But, he says it is how he is.
I am in love with this man… But this aggressive side is not the one I can deal with. Nowadays solving the fights are like huge mess…
Today we had a misunderstanding.. Something I have said has hurt him. I apologised.. yet the fights continues for hours… I decided it is better to take a break from this relationship due to our increased fights.
I feel terrible when I think how lonely he will be without me to talk to..
I am well aware that I am not perfect gf.
TL;DR Me and my bf fights a lot. I am thinking of taking a break.
Can anybody advice on how to fix things ?