Wife just gets mad at me for existing at this point.
Now she's mad because last night my son's friend and his parents came over. I enjoy having visitors, I spent a lot of time and money making my backyard and porch accommodating. My wife's dream night is to sit at the kitchen table and play on her phone.
I was talking to my son's friend and dad the day before, they mentioned wanting to come over for a few hours in the evening. Cool, see you then. I'll make food.
Wife was absolutely furious because she didn't want to be around people. Legit packed a bag and went to stay at her mom's house just to avoid having to talk to anyone. Evening went well without her, no issues. She came home this morning and she'd back to ranting on. At this point according to her it's all my fault, everything is wrong, etc. The usual.
I'm just tired. I'm an adult, I own my house, and I feel like if I want to sit on the back porch with friends and have some food and drinks I should be able to do that. It's not often, maybe every couple weeks or so, but every time it turns into a fight. Worth mentioning is that if I want to leave and go to a friend's house she is happy that I'm leaving, assuming I bring our son. When I do this I nearly always bring my kiddo by the way.
Wife had no responsibilities last night, it wasn't like I was trying to pawn off a bunch of work. I made baked beans, threw a bunch of stuff in the smoker, ate outside, and had it reasonably well cleaned up before bed. I just went outside and spent about 30 minutes doing last minute cleanup.
I'm sorry. I'm rambling. Just need to vent.