Libido is fucked up

Hello everyone!! Im an almost 24yo woman and I have not felt as sexual as I used to at ages 20-22. I used to feel horny a few times per week and now it’s once per 7-10 days. Is that normal? Could it be that I left an unhealthy relationship and my body is healing or am I maybe not compatible with my new man that quotes “for me it is normal to have sex every day or maybe 3-4 times a week” he is almost 30. I need advice or maybe some tips how to uhm get hornier more often..? And please, don’t text me creepy msgs, thx 😗