Hello! I’m asking this from a male perspective, and it’s something that I’ve been thinking a lot about recently. Just how can some men be silent during sex? Like I get why some men don’t like to moan, but I don’t know how they can keep it in. Obviously everyone is different, but for me I can only not moan if I’m masturbating. If I’m having sex with my girlfriend, I literally can’t help but involuntarily moan, it just feels so much more powerful if I’m doing it with someone.
It really surprises me when I hear that so many men are quiet when having sex, because it seems like it would take a lot of willpower to stop from being loud at all. Maybe my girlfriend is just an absolute sex god, but if she touches me at all I’ll get loud, to the point where she has to tell me that I can’t be waking the neighbors. Whenever I watch porn I just am really fascinated that male pornstars can have 3 women all blowing them and they’ll not make any noise at all aside from a little breathing and then they moan at the cumshot.
I’m rambling, and the answer is probably that some people are just less sensitive, but I wanted to ask to be sure if this isn’t every guy but me is really good at keeping it in.
Edit: I should also add that this goes beyond piv, even blowjobs/handjobs drive me wild.