My 5 months of situationship ended a few days ago . At first after 2 months he said he was in love with me. But i was the one who was confused at first them i decided we were better as frnds, but he still continued to flirt with me , care about me and all . He used to say he wouldn’t find anyone better than me , or that he couldn’t like any other girl now as he likes me. He also said that his eyes are only there for me , now he doesn’t find anyone more attractive or better.
So I eventually fell in love with him ….
The main plot of the story is that he was also in love with his ex, he couldn’t get over her in any way , she cheated on him that’s why he hated her but he used to say that the memories still hit back , so I thought if he’s still healing I’ll help him to heal , and then when he’s ready for a relationship we will get in a relationship.
So i talked to him once I realize that i started liking him , as he was also kinda giving me mixed signal , one moment he’s in love with me and another he’s in love with his ex. Tho I thought I’d help him to move on , but i needed to know if he is truely serious about me or wants something with me in the future, so when i asked him that and also said that I’ll wait untill u heal but i need commitment that u’ll only love me , and at any point choose to date another girl .
But then he said , I thought of u as ,my best friend, that’s why i used to say these ,why did you take it srsly those were for fun . And also clearly stated that he doesn’t want commitment.
Okay so myb I’m dumb that I didn’t understand that he was just flirting for fun , but he literally also told my frnds who r also his frnds that he likes me , and he wasn’t ready for a relation ship rn l but he’ll ask me oht at the right time, so how am i supposed to know that he wasn’t srs abt me.
Then we fought a lot that day and i blocked him. We stopped talking……
He called me after i blocked him , but I didn’t pick it up then as I didn’t see it while he called (my ohone was in silent) , i later called him back hoping he’ll have something to explain, but at that time he said , I would have explained to u but u blocked me now I don’t wanna explain it.
I unblocked him the next day , hoping that he’ll let his ego go aside and come and explain to me , cz if he ever even considered me a frmd he would try to fix things, but he says it’s my fault that our frndship got ruined .
Then after a week i saw him on a date with a girl ……….
So everything was a lie , he love bombed me for 5 months , he treated me as his gf to forget his ex. But he was my first love ….. I don’t think I’ll ever be able to trust any other men.