We’ve been married for 7 years ‘32F’ ‘38M’: I went through my husband’s ‘38M’ phone with him being present. I came across a females number leveled by first name (gym). I asked my husband what it was about and he said they play basketball. Only one text message at the time and she was asking him if he was coming because they were playing basketball with another person.
I feel disrespected by the simple fact they exchanged numbers. I wouldn’t have done it and if I let’s say played basketball ball with people at the gym…I’d be like, “well I’ll play when I see you guys are here”.
Am I overthinking this?