My(36M) wife(27F) is a good person at heart. She has many good qualities. It was an arranged marriage and I didn’t get to know her much before marrying her.
My main problem is that I like having intellectually stimulating conversations and have been attracted to girls who are smart and can have conversations on interesting topics.
My wife, on the other hand is more interested in conversations about silly topics like who did what, gossip, celebrity gossip, instagram funny videos etc.
I am unable to enjoy having conversations with her. And this is affecting my day-to-day happiness and I am wondering if I can really live with this person for whole life.
I wanted to know how important it is to have conversations that both parents enjoy. Am I giving too much importance to this? Should I just accept boring conversations coz she brings other qualities to the table? I am confused. Please help me with your suggestions.