So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years and I love him dearly. But the thing is when we have sex I do enjoy everything and he knows that. I like it rough but when we do that I can’t seem to fully relax because I know that in certain positions I have a bit of pain, but it’s not really Pain pain it’s more like pleasure pain I think idk. And if we do it slow and romantic It wouldn’t fully do the job for me. Like within a couple of hours I’d be ready again, but when we get downnn I might need a day or two.
But none of these make me cum and I don’t want my boyfriend thinking that I don’t enjoy having sex with him but then again he’s my first.
And also I don’t touch myself because for someone reason I automatically get turned off when I try to, so therefore I don’t really know my body either. So do you guys have some advice on how I could enjoy sex fully so I could cum? I have came close to it about 2 good times (more tbh but these times were the closest I got), but I couldn’t do it.