Hello all!
To give you the context, I am in relationship that is incredible, I just love my girlfriend so much, she is the best thing that ever happened to me.We are together since 2021.
The problem is that I am still dreaming of my old crushes quite frequently. One of the girls is my 4 year crush from highschool. At that time we were best friends, but I liked her so much back then and wanted her to be my GF, but unfortunately she did not have the same feelings. The second girl is someone that I ve met on Tinder, we talked a lot before meeting up, we saw each other o few times, we finally kissed, all seemed good and then she ghosted me.
Since then I ve met my girlfriend and I could not be any happier.She is so perfect for me, I love everything about her.Given this information, WHY DO I STILL DREAM OF THOSE GIRLS? It drives me crazy and I cant talk with her about this, because I don't think she would like to talk about these things, it would be weird and most probably it would upset her to talk about some girls I liked.
I am dreaming that I kiss them, I hug them and all of these things a couple would do. Is there something deep in my soul, a wound still open and unable to heal?It's true that I suffered a lot from my experiences with these girls and ultimately from the fact that they rejected me, but I don't think about them at all day to day and I feel like I've moved on.Perhaps no?
Not to mention that I don't consider them more attractive than my girlfriend, so I really don't understand why I have such dreams.