I have really big boobs for my frame and while this has never been a problem specifically, my new boyfriend's fetishization of them is extreme.
He makes me wear a bra during sex to cover them up because of I take off my bra too soon, he ends up coming at the sight of them. Sometimes he makes me cover my nipples during sex, because he blows his load of he stares at them too much.
As soon as he touches them during a blowjob he ends up coming. He goes CRAZY, licking and sucking them during foreplay. And will not quit staring at only them during sex, (even with my bra on.) The first time we had sex, he asked me what my bra size was and ended up coming when I answered.
Is this common? Sometimes if I'm not up for sex, he makes me shake my boobs for him, while he jacks off. (which I'm happy to do) but it just seems extreme at this point. Sometimes I like to have my tits sucked on during sex, but as soon as I push my breast into his mouth, he ends up unloading, which finishes sex.
When I've gone on vacation, he's asked for permission to jack off into some of bras at home. It seems like I'm two walking boobs for him and when I've brought up the fact that I feel extremely fetishized, he says that he's never been with someone with boobs that big, with a waist this small and it drives him crazy to think about how big they are.
He also stares a lot at my breasts. Even while we're doing something non sexual, which I find annoying. He's constantly talking about my breasts and how big they are. I honestly find it immature and a cheapening of the intimacy we have. I wish he'd pay attention to other parts of my body too.
What do I do to combat this? I would like to take off my bra during sex sometimes, and have my breasts be played with, without him cumming in seconds.
I've been with men who've been crazy obsessed with boobs but it's never been this extreme. He will literally cum in seconds if I push my breasts in his mouth or if my boobs are too in his face during cowgirl.