When me and my husband were dating, we were very touchy and had lots of tension. We were in our late teens so probably to be expected lol but once we got married, it mostly continued.
Now, we are in our mid 20s and it has been reduced to sex 2 times a month, if I'm lucky, and no more physical intimacy at all outside of those times. I've been communicating to him about how unsatisfied I am with this for almost a year now and every time he makes the same empty promises but doesn't do anything at all to change it.
My self esteem can't help but be shattered because he just doesn't seem interested and physical touch is my love language. I try not to let it affect me but anytime I bring up any sort of sex conversation, he doesn't engage or just responds dryly. He's not interested in talking about sex or if he enjoyed it or what he likes and vise versa, isn't interested in hearing about what I like. I try to talk about just something like hand holding and kissing and same response. He just doesn't seem interested.
Both of us go to the gym and have good, healthy physiques. We have a kid that's 2 now and stressful jobs so I'm wondering if that's the issue? Otherwise, our relationship is great! We are a hard working team, our kid is happy. We talk a lot about everything else but sex. What should I do? And what's going on?
Edit to add : I'm mostly upset actually because supposedly we are "trying to get pregnant" and me and him both have an app that shows when I'm ovulating. Yesterday he was like "oh man.. your ovulation is over already?" And I'm like… yes??? I've been telling you every day that's it's my ovulation period cmon! It's been already almost 2 weeks from last time we were intimate ðŸ˜