I (23M) and my girlfriend (23F) have been dating for 4 months now. I first started talking to her by leaving a note on her car (because it was a genuinely bad ass car, and I thought it was a dude) after getting a response on my Instagram which I left on the paper, it was a girl. I started asking her questions about the car and the conversation died shortly after. Following a few months later, i noticed she wasn’t driving that same car (wasnt in the lot of our college parking lot). Upon friendly texting her we started talking and shortly hung out that following weekend. The “date” went well and at first i could say i was happy to see a future with her. After a couple of weeks going by, one late night after work, she invited me over at her place. Things picked up and we had sex which in the back of my head, concerned me. Past relationships, had holded out months of waiting until any sexual interaction occurred.
After months of dating I’m unsure about the situation I’m in and what to do.
See , before I start, I want to add that my girl friend is attractive, she’s fit, she has a wonderful personality and is a go getter.
I love her, but often don’t usually think of her in a sexual way that I’d see another woman in.
I often look at other woman in that light but don’t act on it or let it fester. The bedroom is good and often but I struggle to think about her in this light.
I don’t want to break up with her as I love her and the wonderful person she is, she’s everything I’d wish to have in a girlfriend, but I’m not into her? I know I’m piece of shit but I need help.
TL;DR: 4 month relationship, I’m not extremely sexually attracted to my partner as I am to other girls.