Hi, I (25F) am together with my partner (26M) for more than 1 year. In all this time I was never able to have an orgasm even though he dedicate to me a lot of time and energy when we are in intimate moments.
I do not feel much please with only penetration, I always need clitoris stimulation.
My partners is aware of this as we talk about it openly and very often he is giving me head and using fingers as I adviced him, since this is the way I got the closest to have an orgasm.
We also use toys, but I never reached it.
The only thing similar to an orgasm I feel is when I reach a point during the act in which I feel like laughing like crazy and after this moment I usually feel like my clitoris has reached a limit for the moment because it's too sensitive.
Moreover, I was never able to come with masturbation or with previous sexual partners. Some of my previous sexual partners were not trying so hard, so I left it there at the time, but now I can see this is afftecting a bit my current partner's mood.
If there is anybody that can relate, would you like to share your story on how did you handle similar situations?
I am open to suggestions 🙂
Thanks