so my boyfriend and i were about to have sex last night and he asked if he could give me head.
i said no bc i knew i wanted to have an orgasm right at that moment. i love head but it takes a lot of build up which i LOVE but didn’t want in that moment.
i asked him to get my vibrator & i used it while he kissed me. i came in the next 8 minutes.
he then asked me to give him head because he felt like he was going to cum fast. and he wanted to go a second round.
i didn’t want to give him head so we just went straight to sex. tbf i had work in the morning & didn’t want to go multiple rounds. he came in a few strokes but i still enjoyed it.
after, he wasn’t speaking (unusual) i asked him what’s up and he said he didn’t enjoy himself. he said it didn’t feel like sex. it instead felt like
impersonal like he was jacking off in his room & i used a vibator in another. he was visibly upset but told me it’s not my fault, he just didn’t enjoy himself.
can anyone provide some more insight into his perspective & give me advice on what to do next?