I still love him. But don’t feel like I’m in love with him. We have been married for 3 years, together for 6. I’m 28, he’s 35. We have 3 kids together. He constantly makes digs at me, calls me a bad mum, doesn’t help around the house at all and very little with the kids.
I do absolutely everything for him and our kids yet there’s no appreciation. I also think he’s a straight up racist and homophobe with the comments he makes. I’m on maternity leave so he’s currently providing for us. I know he’s stressed an I appreciate him supporting us financially. But things just seem to keep getting worse. I just don’t know how to keep doing this.
TL;DR- I feel like I’m falling out of love with my husband and I don’t know what to do
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He shouldn’t be putting down your parenting. Marriage counselling or if he declined divorce
He sounds like a complete ahole. I wouldn’t stay married to someone like that.
Start working with a lawyer so you can start the divorce proceedings. Why you’d even contemplate staying with a racist homophobe where your children will learn those horrific habits is beyond me tbh.
Demand marriage counseling and put divorce on the table. It’s not okay to live like this.